...,she entered a full joint family after her marriage, besides her father and mother in law there were two elder brothers and their wives and children, one unmarried sister in law and two younger unmarried brothers, two married sisters lived nearby, the house always was full of guests , her own connection was with a small family, abba was the only child of his parents and amma had just one brother who was settled abroad, though amma had never experienced a life in a joint family with two three generations living together in large numbers but she had seen those times so amma gave her several time-tested advices knotted to her bridal veil at rukhsati
Always speak in low voice with your parents in l
Always welcome wholeheartedly your married sisters in law
With other wives of other brothers be diplomatic its a delicate matter
She was maintaining all the relationships, there were so many members in the house, each one different from others in nature and habits and tastes, she was trying her best to get along and doing her best to understand them, she remained the focal point of the whole family, naturally the new bride is always the main center of scrutiny and open to critical interest
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