......both  women  began laughing  thinking of other  women  brigade  waiting to attack the food and invade the kitchen,  she asked jugnu bibi  to make  coffee  and she was going to the kitchen to put the kettle on the boil,  promising  to  answer  ger questions on her  return 

Of course   she was married  to the man of her parents  choice  because in their  cultural set up  love is  arranged  after  marriage  not  permitted before marriage  now bibi  how is it possible to forcibly  fall 8n love  with a stranger,  bibi nodded wanting an explanation 

Well  everyone prays secretly  fearing   the spouse will not be of their  liking  but compromises are made for instance  if the bride is  dark  the  groom  feels  grateful  or fair one would have shown attitude 

The bride on the other hand feels the groom is  very fat but daily herbal tea will reduce him somewhat