sabr ka hukum...

....there is a reference  given of the hazrat  with  the hazrat  zeenat  daughter of the  rasool , she had a message sent him asking him to visit  them  because her  child was breathing his  last,   the hazrat  sent a reply   ..dear daughter,   when  almighty takes away  something from   anyone   know it it is His,  if he gives something  to  someone that too is only His 

All things  in the  world belong only to Him, all things   are owned only by Him,  He alone is the absolute  Master of all and can give or take anything  for  which  He has  fixed specific times , learn to accept  it on specific times  things disappear  like people  from the  surface of the earth,  develop  patience