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kaamal  seggests  if  his  mother  in law  is  embarrassed  to  take  back  the  rations  she  brought  for  them she  can  leave  the  gifts   but  take  back  huma  so  her  own relatives  wont  mind  the  rations  returned  because when huma  was  there  with them there  was  no  reason to  send  rations  to  her  in laws  , but he  too was  obliged  to  return the  gifts  for  their s, if  custom must  be  followed  it  must  be  followed  properly