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nadya  comes  in to  find  phophu  bi  her  aunt  drinking  tea, she  asked her  if  she  too would  like  to  have  some, but  nadya  was  in a  philosophical mood , somewhat  lost , she  said   without  wanting  if   things  are  offered  they  are  useless, becaue  no matter  how  much otherwise  they  cost  , or  are  valuable or  selected  and  tasteful but  without  want  , without  desire  without  asking  they  turn meaningless, like  an unwanted  cup  of  tea  offered