from previous--

so  she  decided  to  make  sme  personal  rules--her  commandments -she  followed  them dedicating her  life  to  looking after  her  father's  lands, property, raising her  teenage  brother  , managing  their  lives  and  being  all in all in general  , her  decision was  never  to get  married, the  scar  had  divided  her  life , corrupted  her  future  , she  stayed  single