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when children treat  their  parents  with no  respect  the  parents  feel unwanted  , that their  importance  in life  is  over, they  become  unhappy  tired  and  feel useless, they  quickly  give  in to  others  demands, fearing  neglect  and  ignored they  give  up  their   personality  , demoralised  they  go into  depression, saira also  felt  that  way  when ali  gave  her  a  long lecture  , that he  wanted  a life  of his  own , not  arranged  by her  any  more