from previous--Ganje Sar

if one  finds  his  relationship is  not  good  with his  in laws  there  is  no  reason behind  it, that  they  are  in laws  is  enough a reason, children enjoy  watching  the  behaviour  of  their  elders  without   getting  influenced, they  know  if  moms  are  cooking  good  food  their maternal  relatives  are  arriving, if  moms  are  not  well  and  tied  up  their  heads  with their  veils  and  not  cooking  and  will  serve stale  food  for  lunch  tha  is  a  sign children"s  father"s  mother  is  coming--paternal grandmother  is  synonymous  to the  legendary fretted  mother  in law,on eid  if  maternal uncle  hands  a ten rupee note  it  is  a matter  of  pride  and  honest  money  , if  paternal uncle  is generous  and  gives  a  hundred  dollar  note  he  must  be  crazy  or the  bill must  be  fake