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phophu  bi  the  aunt   listens  to  nadya  talking  in a  philosophical mood  that  unwanted  undesired  things  when she  gets  they  are  meaningless  and  tasteless  and  have  no use  in her  life,  because  they  have  lost    their  value  , so  the  aunt  shares  her  views  that  almighty  has  made  everything  for  a  reason, joys  and  sorrows, every  living  being  , every  vreature  has  a  purpose, nature  does  not  allow  extremes,  moderate   thinking  and  balance  of  mind, gratitude  and  acceptance  is  what  god  likes, refusing  to  take  because  one  did  not  ask  for  it  turns  to  future  regrets, physical  and  spiritual  needs  , disciplined  minds  and  acceptance is  what  makes  life,  as  she  picked  up her  cup  and  tasted  her  tea  enjoying  it  very  much