shaadi--

getting  married  the  first  time  is  a  duty
the  second  time  stupidity
the  third  time  madness--german saying

one  must  make  sure  to get  married  , if  the  spouse  is  compatible  life  is  good
or  one  can turn philosophical   for  free

marriage  is  not  a  honeymoon but  a  test  of  life--german  saying