from previous--

--it  was  a  ladies  function, all  the  women  of  the  family  and  friends  had  gathered  to  have  fun, sings  were  sung  on the  beat  of  the  traditional  dholki, zehra  phupo  arrived  crying  , she  felt  cheated  , when bela  was  born she  had  put  in then her  own son anwar"s  name  for  her  match, now  he  was   grown up,  educated, doing  well in life  and  progressive  with  promising  future  was  rejected  for  someone  outside  their  family, zakya  phupho   scowled  if  the  bride  was  a  doctor  she  needed  an  equal or  above   her  in status  for  her  groom, , one  should  be  grateful  to  have  such  a wedding and  a  suitable  match  in the  family