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-may  god  bless  grand  mother"s  soul, she  used  to  say  women are  vicious  mothers, they  wickedly  show  only  one  side  of  the  picture  of  married  life  , the  frightened  girls  are  inexperienced  and  trust  their  mothers  blindly  believing  that  marriages  are  heavenly  , it  is  a  dream like  state  where  one  lives  in paradise  for ever,  practicalities  of  life  prove  them wrong  shattering  all their  fancies  and  they  for  the  rest  of  their  lives  accuse  and blame  their  mothers,  or  the  innocent  girls  are  taught  to  fear  married  life  so  much  that  once  they  do an  error  they  would  be  packed  up  and  sent  home,   thrown  out  of  their in laws  homes