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--umar  spoke  to  his  mother  that  it  was  as  it  was  and  could  not  be   changed  for  anything,  salha  gave  him a  lecture  on honesty  and  hard  work  , one  must  spend  according  to  his  honest  hard  earned  living  , for  temporary benefits   long  time  and  the  after  life  ought  not  to  be  destroyed,  the  children  of  the  family  must  be  fed  food   gotten  from honest  earning ,  cutting  on  desires   and  eating  less  and  spending  on cheaper  less  expensive  things  one  needs  will not  hurt  anyone  but  dishonest  life  brings  sorrow  sooner  or  later