from previous--

one  day  mother  advised  her  to  take  care  of  herself, take  care  of  him, to  keep  things  in  proper order, not  waste  things, improve  her  looks, her  behaviour, change  her  attitude, show  more  interest  in life  itself, life  is  unpredicatable,be  more  positive  as  long  as  one  is  given a  chance  to  live  use  it, putting  the  things  in proper  places  , arrange  the  decor, welcome   good fortune, mother  then  lectured  on how  to  use  things  she  had  in different  ways  without  wasting  them