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adilah  who  had  never   lifted  a  glass  in her  maternal home  was  forced  to  compromise  , make  compromises  and  adjust  in her  new  married  life  , because  her  attitude  of  self  centeredness  would  only  damage  her  future  , possibilities  of  future  are  not  distant  dreams  if  planned  carefully