ettiquettes-

-a  new  groom reached  his  in laws  in lucknow  , the  mother  in law  respectfully  asked  what  should  be  cooked  for  the  lunch  for  him,  dear  son our   groom  would  you  like  to  have  mian pataoes  or  mehtrama ladyfingers, or  pumpkin sahib, the  groom simply  replied  he  was  not  worthy  of  all those  respectful  vegetables  and  preferred to  see  a  shameless rooster in his  plate