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....jana asked appa  suddenly feeling warm towards her , sge was behaving like a sister  she never had and always longed for,   hiw could she not lose sarmad,  what could she do to prevent  her marriage from breaking up, how could she  stop her family from  disaster,  appa said she can tell if she us ready to listen 

Jana was stunned,  she had believed in herself,  she was faithful,  doing all her duties,  yet appa had seen in her  a weak point  , 

Appa said  the weak point is that you are a wedded wife 

Man is selfish  and expects women to be faithful,  hardworking,  serve him,      bear  his children  , raise them  and  lose her identity  ,  but man always wants more and more,  jana  you even tried to accept and accommodate  appa and others  for his sake  but you  forgot to be a woman in love   and  just got your life entangled around  other   domestic roles