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....that was the first and the last time  that decided  appa was going to  be the reining queen of the family  , family rules were relaxed at night  to be reinforced early next morning when  appa would appear to remind her of them,  in tge beginning  they were just two of them,  sometimes she wanted to tell appa why not write down all the rules  she must follow on a piece of paper she will hide in her shoes,  when asked she could repeat  the rules  , a little cheating  could help her , she felt appa was just another unpaid  maid  training her to become  like her, she couldn't sing or hum for the same reason  of rules that didn't allow  women folk in the house spoke or sang  loud , voices must be kept low