Monday, January 18, 2016

badtamiz baccha--

--children  are  born as  blessings  to  families  who  cherish  them like  precious  treasures, for  others  they  are   curses  , if  children are  neglected  and  ignored  they  change  their  attitude  to  draw  attention of  their  mothers,  sometimes  ignorant  mothers  do  not  realise   or   they are  uncaring  and not  so  motherly , as  a  result  children suffer, they  become  bullies,   coarse  common  and rough, with time  they  grow  up  feeling  free  of  restrictions, indisciplined , restrains  put  on them make  them aggressive , they  challenge  others, overpowering  their  class fellows  and  social  circle  , making  small groups  of  favourites  against  those  disliked  ones  becomes  a  habit  with them,  to  reform such  problematic  negative  habits  in bullies  one  must  first  of  all see  what  is  troubling them,  low  self  esteem, jealousy , others  progress , then tackling  the  point , handling  them  is  smooth, they  can  get  over  their  wickedness  by  counselling , bullies  are  bullies  because  of  the  way  they  were  treated  while   growing  up  by  their  caretakers

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