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--many  listeners  of  urdu  poetry  question why  a  beloved  in urdu  poetry is never  depicted  as  a  female, beloved  is  always  understood  and  highlighted  and  implied  in third  person masculine  gender ,  the  objection is  raised  in several  gatherings  , a  renowned  urdu  poet  answered  the  objection raised  in the  following  lines  explaining  why  -
-You  are  always  near  me dear
-when She  is  not  around--

-tum mere  pass  Hoti ho goya
-jab koi  Dusri  nahi  hoti

--original is--
-tum mere  pass hotey  ho goya
-jab koi  dusra  nahi  hota